From Happy Endings to Fabulous Beginnings

Thank you, 2018, for a wonderful year! 2018 proved to be a fabulous year in a number of ways. A few highlights for me included:Finding Health After Cancer

  • Publishing my first book, Finding Health After Cancer – finally or at last some might say. At just the right moment is what I would say.
  • Setting the stage for a second book to follow in 2019. Yes, really!
  • Working with my first corporate clients.
  • Reading 23 books (up from 16 in 2017).

 

Oftentimes it seems I am saying good riddance to a year as we turn the corner to a new one. 2018, however, holds a special place in my heart. While accomplishing a significant goal in 2018, I also mapped out a plan for a stellar 2019. My husband and I will have milestone birthdays this year and have identified a number of activities (both personally and professionally) we want to accomplish. These lists should not be confused with New Year’s Resolutions: they are things we want to do to bring joy to our lives, they are NOT shame-filled corrections to last year or any other year; they actually build off of momentum from 2018.

We took a cue from Gretchen Rubin and each of us made a 19 for 2019 list. Rubin and her sister introduced this concept last year to their podcast listeners when they revealed their 18 for 2018 lists – lists of 18 things each wanted to do in 2018. I loved this idea, but for some reason did not hop onto this idea last year.

A couple of highlights on my list are:

  • Publish second book.
  • Expand on speaking portion of my business.
  • Become more active in Chambers of Commerce.
  • Read 32 books.
  • Run my first half marathon.
  • Participate in my first century bike ride.
  • Identify volunteer opportunities.

To accomplish my business goals, I’ll rely on an accountability group to keep me moving forward. There is nothing like a friendly kick in the butt with words of encouragement to ensure forward motion!

I’ve put details of how I’m going to accomplish each of these items in writing to boost the likelihood of making them happen. Two friends have signed on to be my running buddies which will provide accountability for me to get off the couch and go outside (or to a treadmill when roads are snow covered) for a run. John and I will train at our home and at the gym for the century ride until spring when we can get outside to hop on our bikes.

What exactly is the purpose of this 19 for 2019 list, you ask? I have discovered I’m at my happiest and feel most fulfilled when I have specific items I want to achieve and work toward them. Keeping it simple and accomplishing the items I’ve got in store for 2019 will result in my being healthy and happy – and what else could I want for 2019?

So…what about you? Have you set yourself up for success in 2019? Need help setting and achieving your goals? Let’s connect. After all, healthy living starts now!

Photo of Deb and her bike by Richard Sawyer Photography.
From Happy Endings to Fabulous Beginnings was last modified: January 3rd, 2019 by Deb Nelson

The Season of Gratitude: A Bit Sweeter This Year

Thanksgiving has come and gone. My husband and I celebrated the holiday with his family in Massachusetts this year – and what a grand celebration it was! Ages in our group ranged from 2 to 82(ish?) with the promise of another baby joining our clan on January 3.

Squeals of delight and peals of laughter could be heard from young and not-so-young, and the younger group kept the rest of us on our toes – especially when it became apparent that being naked was essential for anyone under the age of 6! Of course, we were reminded that the food (delicious as it was) took a backseat to spending time with family. We were lucky enough to spend some extra time with a few members of the family before heading to Newport, Rhode Island where the traditions of yesteryear were on display as we toured three mansions decked out for the Christmas season. Lunch with old friends and coffee with new friends before visiting my mother and sister on our drive north completed our Thanksgiving celebration.

And now, as I relax in the comfort of my home in Maine, I continue to bask in this season of gratitude:

Finding Health After CancerAfter working on a manuscript for seven years, I have published Finding Health After Cancer: Stories of Renewal and Healing. A number of people (23 to be exact) allowed me to share their stories of navigating a cancer diagnosis. Each person faced a life-challenging and life-changing moment in his or her own way. Each of these cancer conquerors was forced to make a variety of decisions as they navigated their path to health. Priorities shifted without warning as they learned their diagnosis. They began asking questions, listening to friends and family members, tuning in to their intuition, and researching options. They transformed their lives following their cancer diagnosis. Treatment varied from person to person: some people followed a conventional treatment plan, while others turned to complementary and alternative treatment.

They had one thing in common: they found a way to steer clear of a downward spiral when they were handed a cancer diagnosis. They looked at their options, decided which treatment suited their particular situation, and forged ahead. They also became advocates for themselves and other cancer patients.

One additional story was included in this book to turn our focus to prevention: what can we do to keep a cancer diagnosis at bay? Again, another strong advocate for healthy living took center stage.

As I write these words, I am reminded of how grateful I am that:

  • so many people had trust in me to share their stories;
  • I connected with wildly talented professionals to help me share these stories;
  • friends came to the table with encouragement, questions, and smiles;
  • my husband never wavered in giving me the time and space to complete this book;
  • self-publishing is a viable option for putting books into readers’ hands;
  • AND SO MUCH MORE.

As the world keeps jumping from hot topic to hot topic, try to find some quite time where you can focus on those elements of your life that bring you joy, gratitude, and calm. Wild and wooly will always make their way into your life; sometimes chilling out brings remarkable clarity.

 

The Season of Gratitude: A Bit Sweeter This Year was last modified: November 27th, 2018 by Deb Nelson