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Bored Taste Buds? Shake Them Up!!

How many days do you sit at your desk or aimlessly walk the aisles of your grocery store and ask yourself what the heck you’re going to have for dinner? There are an infinite amount of choices, yet NOTHING seems appealing. ARGHH!!!

SOLUTION: Cook one meal you’ve never prepared before every week. Yes, it takes a little preparation and a bit of scouting around. The rewards, however, can be A-mazing. That was the case for me this week when I made Spaghetti Squash “Bolognese” from the recipe in Anthony Williams’ book, Medical Medium: Thyroid Healing. Oh. My. Goodness. This recipe is simply fabulous!! Neither my husband nor I had ever cooked spaghetti squash. What a treat – we loved everything about it: the ease; the texture; and above all, the taste! Put this recipe on next week’s menu!!

Why is it important to keep from getting bored with your food? It’s easy to fall into bad habits when we’re bored with what’s on our plates. The benefits to a bit of planning to keep your taste buds happy:

  • By changing up your diet, you can get a variety of nutrients into your system.
  • Planning your menu keeps you from waiting until the last minute to decide what you’ll eat. Making meal decisions before you’re famished means you’re less likely to eat low-nutrient, not-so-good-for-you meals.
  • You walk into that grocery store confidently with a list for your meal(s).
  • You no longer have nagging thoughts about food, meals, snacks, bad habits running through your mind all day.
  • Make it fun: Trade off with your spouse, significant other, BFF – every other week each of you can prepare a new meal. Once you’ve got the hang of it, each of you can prepare a new meal every week.
  • Split the responsibilities: one of you gets the ingredients into the kitchen, the other cooks, you both clean – you get the idea: Shake It Up!!
  • Add on: create a theme night and build an entire evening around the meal. Extra credit – television and phones are silenced.

Give it a go and let me know how shaking up your taste buds changes your outlook on food.

Bored Taste Buds? Shake Them Up!! was last modified: December 5th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

The Season of Gratitude: A Bit Sweeter This Year

Thanksgiving has come and gone. My husband and I celebrated the holiday with his family in Massachusetts this year – and what a grand celebration it was! Ages in our group ranged from 2 to 82(ish?) with the promise of another baby joining our clan on January 3.

Squeals of delight and peals of laughter could be heard from young and not-so-young, and the younger group kept the rest of us on our toes – especially when it became apparent that being naked was essential for anyone under the age of 6! Of course, we were reminded that the food (delicious as it was) took a backseat to spending time with family. We were lucky enough to spend some extra time with a few members of the family before heading to Newport, Rhode Island where the traditions of yesteryear were on display as we toured three mansions decked out for the Christmas season. Lunch with old friends and coffee with new friends before visiting my mother and sister on our drive north completed our Thanksgiving celebration.

And now, as I relax in the comfort of my home in Maine, I continue to bask in this season of gratitude:

Finding Health After CancerAfter working on a manuscript for seven years, I have published Finding Health After Cancer: Stories of Renewal and Healing. A number of people (23 to be exact) allowed me to share their stories of navigating a cancer diagnosis. Each person faced a life-challenging and life-changing moment in his or her own way. Each of these cancer conquerors was forced to make a variety of decisions as they navigated their path to health. Priorities shifted without warning as they learned their diagnosis. They began asking questions, listening to friends and family members, tuning in to their intuition, and researching options. They transformed their lives following their cancer diagnosis. Treatment varied from person to person: some people followed a conventional treatment plan, while others turned to complementary and alternative treatment.

They had one thing in common: they found a way to steer clear of a downward spiral when they were handed a cancer diagnosis. They looked at their options, decided which treatment suited their particular situation, and forged ahead. They also became advocates for themselves and other cancer patients.

One additional story was included in this book to turn our focus to prevention: what can we do to keep a cancer diagnosis at bay? Again, another strong advocate for healthy living took center stage.

As I write these words, I am reminded of how grateful I am that:

  • so many people had trust in me to share their stories;
  • I connected with wildly talented professionals to help me share these stories;
  • friends came to the table with encouragement, questions, and smiles;
  • my husband never wavered in giving me the time and space to complete this book;
  • self-publishing is a viable option for putting books into readers’ hands;
  • AND SO MUCH MORE.

As the world keeps jumping from hot topic to hot topic, try to find some quite time where you can focus on those elements of your life that bring you joy, gratitude, and calm. Wild and wooly will always make their way into your life; sometimes chilling out brings remarkable clarity.

 

The Season of Gratitude: A Bit Sweeter This Year was last modified: November 27th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

Facebook and Birthdays: A Win for All

Yesterday was my birthday. The day started and ended with messages from friends near and far wishing me a Happy Birthday on my Facebook page. Now THIS is where Facebook excels. I heard from people I see every day, as well as from people I haven’t seen in weeks, months, or years.

The comments were brief, sincere, and appreciated. Of course I realize that Facebook sent notices to my FB friends letting them know it was my birthday.  (How good is that? FB reminding you once a year to check in with your friends.) I scrolled through my Facebook feed with a smile on my face because social media was being used to share good news, spread some love, and make people smile. It gets no better than that!

It’s easy to hop on a social media soapbox to shout our frustration, spew hatred, or shame others for their actions. That is not, however, where social media shines. Social media is a powerful tool. Social media gets that power from its users.

Let’s make that power a positive experience. How about if we think about how our words are going to land with other people before posting? Yes, I know — life life isn’t all puppy dogs and unicorns. Yet, if we send a simple birthday greeting to our friends, life will be a little brighter for all of us. And MAYBE, just MAYBE, the heat on the posts will relax a little. And you know what else? We just might find that our positive social media experience will have a positive impact on our health. Sounds like another win to me.

Let’s keep birthday season going every day of the year!

Facebook and Birthdays: A Win for All was last modified: October 26th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

October: 31 Days to Support the Nonprofit Community.

One element of living well is lending a hand to those in need. By supporting nonprofits in your community, you can join efforts to strengthen community and improve the lives of those going through a rough time. Some friends and neighbors have chronic needs and some find themselves in a position they never imagined: seeking and accepting help to deal with a short-term crisis.

Check out nonprofits in your area that provide services to those who could benefit from a helping hand. I’ve listed 31 nonprofits below (along with a link to their websites); some are affiliated with national organizations, so you might find a similar organization in your world. Others might be more specific to the Portland, Maine area. In any event, there is no shortage of opportunity to boost someone’s spirits by making a donation of your time or dollars.

31 Nonprofits Doing Good Work to Strengthen Community

  1. Caring Unlimited – working with the community to end domestic violence in York County.
  2. Center for Grieving Children – provides loving support that encourages the safe expression of grief and loss and fosters each individual’s resilience and emotional well-being.
  3. Cromwell Center – promotes safe, respectful and inclusive schools and communities.
  4. Day One – improves the health of Maine by providing substance use, mental health and wellness services to youth and families.
  5. Furniture Friends – Creating Homes. Rebuilding Lives.
  6. Girl Scouts of Maine– builds girls of courage, confidence, and character who make the world a better place.
  7. Girls on the Run – inspires girls to be joyful, healthy and confident, using a fun, experienced-based curriculum which creatively integrates running.
  8. Good Shepherd Food Bank – eliminates hunger in Maine by sourcing and distributing nutritious food to people in need, building strong community partnerships, and mobilizing the public in the fight to end hunger.
  9. Grahamtastic Connection – connecting kids when their world is out of reach.
  10. Holocaust and Human Rights Center of Maine – promotes universal respect for human rights through outreach and education.
  11. Iris Network – helping people who are visually impaired or blind attain independence and community integration.
  12. Junior Achievement of Maine – inspires and prepares young people to succeed in a global economy.
  13. Maine Association of Nonprofits – enriches the quality of community and personal life in Maine by strengthening the leadership, voice, and organizational effectiveness of our state’s nonprofits.
  14. Maine Inside Out – initiates dialogue, develops leadership, and builds community across boundaries with collaborative original theater, inside and outside correctional facilities.
  15. Maine Youth Leadership – works with Maine youth to seek out, recognize, and develop their leadership skills.
  16. Make-A-Wish Maine – serves a unique, and vital, role in helping strengthen and empower children battling critical illnesses.
  17. My Place Teen Center – provides a safe haven for youth, ages 10 – 18, sustaining them with comfort, meals, resources, and hope.
  18. Pets for Vets – heal the emotional wounds of military veterans by using the power of the human-animal bond.
  19. Portland Wheelers – giving the gift of bicycling – or adaptive tricycling – to people living with significant disabilities.
  20. Preble Street – provides accessible barrier-free services to empower people experiencing problems with homelessness, housing, hunger, and poverty, and to advocate for solutions to these problems.
  21. Purple Iris Foundation – raises awareness, provides support, and gives hope to individuals and families affected by cancer.
  22. Riding to the Top – helps people with disabilities reach their highest potential through the healing power of horses.
  23. Robbie Foundation – improves the quality of life for children with special needs.
  24. Simple Gifts – provides limited financial support and encouragement to patients and their loved ones who are experiencing a medical crisis.
  25. Strive – serving tweens, teens and young adults with intellectual and emotional disabilities.
  26. Through These Doors (formerly Family Crisis Center) – creates innovate responses and mobilizes our community to provide safety and challenge systems of oppression and violence.
  27. United Ways of Maine – improving people’s lives by mobilizing community caring and resources.
  28. WinterKids – helps children develop healthy, lifelong habits through education and fun, outdoor winter activity.
  29. Women United Around the World – celebrating, advocating and assisting women locally and globally to achieve independence through vocational training and community connections.
  30. Woodford Family Services – committed to the support and inclusion of people with special needs and their families in Maine communities.
  31. York County Shelter Programs – committed to ending homelessness and assisting people to reach their fullest potential.

Need a few more ideas? No problem:

  • Connect with an organization like 100+ Women Who Care, Southern Maine that can introduce you to a variety of nonprofits.
  • There’s a library in every town that could use your help.
  • Rotary Clubs are in many towns doing a variety of local and international service projects.
  • Food pantries in community after community would welcome your input.
  • Call your town hall or connect with your school department to find out what needs are specific to your town.

Use my birthday month of October to investigate the world of nonprofits. Step in and see how viewing the world through that nonprofit lens impacts you, as well as the nonprofit(s) you choose to assist. Do you have more energy? Do you feel happier as you boost the day of others around you? Do you feel more engaged as you learn all that’s happening in your community? Let me know how 31 days of October affect you.

Live Well. Eat Well. Be Well.

October: 31 Days to Support the Nonprofit Community. was last modified: October 1st, 2018 by Deb Nelson

Does it Really Matter Which Path You Choose?

There are many paths to health. One of the most dangerous thing you can do is to get caught up in analysis paralysis. What’s so dangerous about that? You’re trying to decide whether to take a spin class, go for a run, or join a yoga class. Suddenly you realize you’ve been pondering this for two weeks. In that time, you have put your exercise plans on hold.

Use Mel Robbins’ 5 Second Rule. Count backwards: 5-4-3-2-1. GO! Pick one. Take one step. If it works out, great. Keep on going. If it doesn’t work out:

Re-assess.

Pivot.

Move on to Plan B.

Just as different paths lead to the same beach in the image above, many paths lead to reclaiming your health. They all start with action. Put one foot in front of the other, and begin.

Need help, let’s connect! Healthy living starts now.

 

Does it Really Matter Which Path You Choose? was last modified: September 28th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

It’s September: Happy New Year!

September is bursting with opportunity as the crisp autumn air moves into town. The world is consumed with the excitement of schools beginning a new year. SO, too, can we hop onto that excitement and reset our health goals for the remainder of the calendar year: a bonus, if you will, for each of us to take a moment and assess our plans before the pressure associated with the final quarter of the calendar year arrives.

So, Happy September New Year to you! Reflect and take action. Take advantage of the clean slate September affords:

  • Assess your goals.
  • Assess your strategy.
  • Put new goals in place and/or continue on track to meet existing goals.
  • Celebrate your successes.

Make a commitment to your health and keep your goals front and center for the remainder of the year.

  • Identify areas in your life that you’d like to adjust:

Health                                          Education

Physical Activity                          Career

Home Environment                    Finances

Social Life                                    Relationships

Spirituality                                   Creativity

Home Cooking                          Joy

  • Set SMART goals.
  • Make goals that make sense to you and fit your lifestyle.
  • Write your health goals on paper, post-its, etc. and post them where you’ll see them EVERY DAY.
  • Find an accountability partner to keep you on track.

You are in control. A clean slate means you can reset: build on your successes and kick bad habits to the curb. Need a hand with September goals? Let’s connect.

Happy New Year: Healthy living starts now.

It’s September: Happy New Year! was last modified: September 4th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

Unplug: Leave Your Phone at Home

Do this today – yes, even though your day is already planned. For ONE HOUR, take a technology break: Leave. Your. Phone. At. Home.

Maybe you’ll break out into a cold sweat at the mere thought of being unplugged for an hour. Maybe you’ll feel a deep sense of relief at the thought of having some alone time.

  • What could you do with that hour? Here are a few options:
  • Grab a book that’s been on your reading list.
  • Attend a yoga class.
  • Run your favorite route.
  • Go for a walk – with or without man’s best friend – at the beach, in a park, through your town.
  • Take a hike.
  • Hop on your bike.
  • See what it feels like to sit in your backyard.
  • Meet a friend and catch up – face to face!
  • If you’ve got kids, surprise them with a picnic supper.
  • Go fly a kite.
  • Enjoy a device-free dinner with your family.
  • Do some meal prep for the week.
  • Volunteer at a nonprofit.
  • Check out the sunset – actually enjoy the experience rather than trying to take the perfect photo.
  • Get outside and enjoy the fresh air.
  • Start a routine of unplugging one hour before you go to bed.
  • You get it: Do anything that makes your heart sing and brings a smile to your face.

Take note of how unplugging makes you feel. Anxious? Relaxed? Relieved? All of the above?

Once you’ve mastered a one-hour break from technology, work up to two hours. How about setting a goal of going tech free for an entire day? Stop sweating. It will be okay.

As always, let me know how this change fits into your helath goals.

Unplug: Leave Your Phone at Home was last modified: February 10th, 2022 by Deb Nelson

Shake Yourself Up: Wake Yourself Up

You got to work at 7:45, and you’ve been staring at your screen ever since. Excellent – it’s 10:30 already. Only a couple of hours until lunch. Well, excellent except for one thing. You’re exhausted, and you can’t really think of anything you’ve accomplished. Arghhhh!!!!!

What’s a person to do? Go old school, and set a timer of course!! Seriously? Yes. Do it: Every 45 minutes. Every day. For one week. See how much more you can accomplish than you thought possible. See how much more energy you have.

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  • Take a walk around your office.
  • Get a glass of water.
  • Crank up the tunes.
  • Take note of how much you accomplished in the last 45 minutes.
  • Is it time for lunch? Use part of your break to go outside – walk for 15 minutes. Say hello to a stranger.
  • Call a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while.
  • Schedule a date with a friend.
  • Write a note (snail mail) to connect with a friend, family member, client, prospective client.

And just like that, you’re ready for another 45-minute segment. Figure out what you’ll work on for the next 45 and give it your all.

Do this for an entire week and assess:

  • How has your productivity changed?
  • Are you working in a more efficient manner?
  • Do you feel more focused?
  • Do you have more energy?
  • Did this increase your level of happiness?
  • Have you noticed any unintended consequences?

Next up? Try it again next week, and let me know what how this works for you.

Shake Yourself Up: Wake Yourself Up was last modified: August 10th, 2018 by Deb Nelson

Food Dilemma: What Should I Eat?

How many times a day do we ask ourselves what we should eat? Too many, I’d guess. Here’s my best answer:

Keep it simple. Do not, not matter how tempting, complicate this thing we call food.

I continue to believe that Michael Pollan has said it best: “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.” There you go. Seven words. Utterly simple.

For those still struggling, let’s break it down.

Eat food: food that has not been processed to the point where we’ll get little or no nutritional value from it.

Not too much:

For meals – stop eating before you feel ready to burst. Better yet, stop eating when you might still be a little hungry. See if after a few minutes, your feeling of hunger has passed. Do not feel compelled to clean your plate. Mom will understand.

For snacks – ask yourself a question before diving into that mid-morning or mid-afternoon snack: Am I hungry, bored, thirsty, or tired? Not sure? Get up. Have a glass of water. Change your scenery. Have a 5-minute conversation with a colleague. Go for a 10-minute walk. Still feeling hungry? Have a healthy snack: real food. Apple, celery, you get the picture.

Mostly plants: Build your meals and snacks around plants. Eat the rainbow. See how your body reacts. Plants provide us with fiber and a host of other benefits that we won’t get from animal products. Love your plants.

That’s it.

Utterly simple.

Totally healthy.

Give it a try, and let me know how these seven words serve you.

Food Dilemma: What Should I Eat? was last modified: July 23rd, 2018 by Deb Nelson

On Cholesterol: Food for Thought

So…you’ve had some blood taken from your arm, and the results are in. Your cholesterol’s high. Your doctor presents you with his or her recommended treatment to bring your cholesterol level down: statins.

Then these thoughts start racing through your mind: I don’t want to take drugs. Yes, I’m a bit overweight. I know I need to change my eating habits. I don’t want to take drugs. Drugs will bring my levels down. What are the side effects? My doctor knows what’s best for me. What if I change my eating habits? Which is better for me? How did I get here? I’m not doing anything different from last year. Why are my numbers higher now?

AND ON. AND ON. AND ON.

What’s a person to do?

Disclaimer. Before reading any further, please note: I’m not
credentialed in the medical field. This blog is for informational
purposes only and is not meant to be a substitute for medical
advice or treatment.

Are we clear? Good – now let’s continue.

Questions, people, ask questions. Stay curious.

What options are available to you?

Can diet changes (adding more plant foods to your plate and cutting back on animal products) and lifestyle changes (increase exercise, reduce stress, etc.), with positive side effects, be as effective as pharmaceuticals?

What are the upsides and downsides of pharmaceuticals?

Do you have high cholesterol because you have a lack of pharmaceuticals in your blood?

Do you have high cholesterol because you have a lack of plant food in your blood?

What are the consequences if you?

Do nothing?

Take drugs as prescribed and check cholesterol levels in 90 days?

Make changes to diet and lifestyle and check cholesterol levels in 90 days?

Combine both options in some fashion?

Yes, our bodies create cholesterol; and we need some cholesterol in our bodies. If we’ve got too much cholesterol in our blood system, though, doesn’t it seem to make sense to stop bringing in outside sources of cholesterol? That would mean eliminating or cutting back on animal products: all of those goodies including meat, dairy, eggs, fish – you get the picture. Bump up the plant foods and take a look.

This seems obvious and logical to me. Yet when friends and family members see their doctors and learn they have high cholesterol, the focus seems to be on adding a dose of drugs to the equation without including diet or lifestyle changes in the mix.

Am I missing something?

On Cholesterol: Food for Thought was last modified: July 19th, 2018 by Deb Nelson