Acknowledging Losses During Corona Quarantine

What are you missing during this time of isolation?

Friends ~ Family ~ Hugs ~ Freedom ~ Face-to-Face Conversations 
Co-workers ~ Control ~ Contact ~ Beaches ~ Restaurants
Traditions ~ Work ~ Normalcy ~ Spontaneity ~ Volunteering
Travel ~ Paycheck ~ High Fives ~ Shopping ~ Team Sports
Sense of Security ~ Community ~ Focus ~ Balance

While walking along one of the only beaches still open to the public in Southern Maine this weekend, I saw these shells that someone had arranged to spell out MISS YOU. It was a beautiful and painful sign of the times.

How are you handling these feelings of loss? Do you take time to think about whom and what you’re missing, and how that makes you feel?

Acknowledging these losses is important – sure, some of these losses might appear relatively trivial on their own. When we look at the cumulative losses based on changes to our lives that are out of our control, however, we can understand why we might be feeling out of sorts.

Cut yourself some slack and take a break when you need to:

Go for a walk or run
Take a nap – set your alarm for 20 minutes
Listen to music
Meditate

Take advantage of time at home

Play a game of catch with your kids and/or significant other
Cook up a surprise lunch for whoever’s in your quarantine kingdom

Be Creative

Write a gratitude list: 3 things you’re grateful for
Take an online course
Ask for Help
Don’t go it alone ~ reach out to a close friend and let them know you’re having a tough time

Corona quarantine is a wild time for all of us. Self-care is important; tune in to yourself. Keep an eye out for those in your circle.

 

Acknowledging Losses During Corona Quarantine was last modified: April 21st, 2020 by Deb Nelson

RELAX: TAKE TIME TO DO NOTHING

Yes, you read that title correctly: do nothing. Make it a priority to do nothing. You get to set the rules. You decide how long you’ll do nothing.

Breathe.

Put your phone away.

Take a break from the media.

Step away from the keyboard.

Snuggle in with your favorite blanket.

Close your eyes.

Breathe. And breathe. And breathe.

Take good care of yourself.

 

RELAX: TAKE TIME TO DO NOTHING was last modified: April 14th, 2020 by Deb Nelson

Random Act of Kindness for the Win

A wild and unpredictable time. That is how I’ll remember Spring of 2020.

 

Coronavirus. COVID-19. Press Conferences. Lockdown. Uncertainty. Fear.

 

And yet, in the midst of this turmoil we find kindness. Every. Single. Day.

Random Acts of Kindness when we need them most.

Random Acts of Kindness delivered to me.
    • Homemade bread arriving on my doorstep.
    • A gift card via email to a local restaurant.
    • Phone calls, emails, text messages, zoom calls.
    • Fruit for the taking left on a table at a park.
Random Acts of Kindness throughout our community.
    • Neighbors meeting neighbors – a smile, a wave, a brief hello on a now daily walk.
    • Neighbors supporting neighbors through community groups.
    • Quarantine Karaoke on Facebook
    • Volunteers arriving at nonprofits to serve those in need.
    • Donors sending funds to allow nonprofits to continue their work and expand their offerings to people who unexpectedly find themselves unemployed, hungry, and scared.
    • People keeping businesses alive by buying gift cards to be used when businesses re-open.
    • This list just scrapes the surface.
  •  Kindness First. Always.

Random Act of Kindness for the Win was last modified: April 8th, 2020 by Deb Nelson